There is Nothing Fair About Sex!

The other night I was flipping through the stations and watched a couple of minutes of the “I Love Ray J” show.  This show is crazy,  but there was something interesting happening.  Ray J is down to his three final women and he wanted some of his friends/”homies” , along with Snoop Dogg, to come by his house to check out the girls and give him their thoughts.  Well one his homies  revealed, one of the girls had slept with another one of the homies.  Now they started to clown this girl and made sure to let Ray J know she was too much of a ho.  Now these guys seemed like they wouldn’t mind a loose/ fast girl,  but they did.  They all felt like she had crossed the line and wasn’t right for Ray J because she was basically too much of a ho.  That had me thinking about the fact that no matter how much men tell women to be sexy and really want to play around  with the sexy fast girl.  There is no way they really want that woman to be their lady.

I think so many women nowadays feel more open than ever about their sexuality.  Many young women feel that sleeping around is the big deal.   However, I think many women are really misguided in this area.  Many men will play and have sex with a ho but a man is going to be in love with a real woman.  Does that mean that real women aren’t sexy? Of course not, sex appeal is not necessarily the clothes a women wears.  Most of the time its the way  she carries herself that men will find sexy in a much more lasting way.    Its true that men will flock around fast woman in tight clothes.  Those women will  enjoy a lot of artificial attention and pseudo love.   This type of attention is for the pleasure of sex not for a relationship/wife.  No man EVER wants other men to know that his wife is , was or has ever been considered a ho.  Why is that?  because no man wants to bring children in this world from a ho.   Believe it or not ladies, men want a good woman. Men want a woman they can call theirs, not someone everyone has had their hands on.  No man ever wants to meet a man and have him say ” Your wife is great in bed”.

The truth is that men don’t look at sex the same way for a women period.  Ladies,  if many men love to play with you in bed but not stay with you in a relationship.