Unwritten Rules of Relationships

I know you all have noticed the plethora of men wearing skinny jeans. Gosh, even typing it makes me wanna throw up in my mouth. I see all the young guys wearing them and some older guys too, which is just shocking to me. I initially thought it was a male teenage thing, but I was wrong. To top it off,  I have also noticed men are wearing two earrings; an earring in each ear. ENOUGH is ENOUGH! I’m wondering if you ladies out there think this is sexy or do you think it’s as ridiculous as I do???

Back in the day (damn I sound old when I say that), but back in the day, men/guys/boys dressed like men. There was a distinct difference between men and women. Men wore straight leg jeans or sometimes slacks and they damn sure weren’t wearing an earring in each ear. Who in the heck said this was ok?!?!?!  Personally, if I’m dating a guy and I’m wearing skinny jeans and earrings; you darn sure shouldn’t be wearing the same thing! Trend or no trend, can men just get back to dressing like men? I mean, is that too much to ask?

Now, that I got rant off my chest, I’d love to know what you ladies think about it. Actually, I’d also like to know what you men (who still dress like men) think about this as well.

Let us know……

I love Facebook and admit I spend a lot of time on there.  It’s a personal space for me to talk with my friends and family. I’ve been noticing a lot of people have the “It’s Complicated” Facebook dating status.  It got me thinking; why does a relationship have to be complicated? Better yet, why in the world do you want to be in a relationship that is complicated? When I see/hear it’s complicated I immediately think that individual is in some BS type of situation they clearly don’t need to be in or it wouldn’t be complicated. What kind of BS situation am I referring to? Well, let’s see. I think the one of the following:

1. Someone is involved with an individual that is married.
2. Your dating someone who isn’t quite ready for a commitment, but you are and you’re your hanging on hoping they’ll change their mind.
3. You got cheated on (or you did the cheating) and now you’re relationship is on shaky ground.

Why do we hang on to these complicated relationships? Are we waiting for a love fairy to come down and magically uncomplicate the situation for us?

Since we are embarking on a new year, I propose all of you with these “It’s Complicated” Facebook dating status’; take a real hard look into what’s making your situation complicated and determine if this is a situation that is truly good for you and if it’s not; have enough balls to end it and move on.

I don’t know about you, but it’s my goal to live a life that is as uncomplicated as possible. Who needs the added drama? I certainly don’t. Do you?

Yes, we’re still alive. I know it’s been a while, but we are back in full effect and are excited to announce some new things for Unwritten Rules of Relationships for the new year.

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We are so excited to be back on track and cannot wait to get this conversation going. Happy New Year!!!